tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2530451786669304321.post7123940234583726197..comments2023-09-22T08:12:25.535-04:00Comments on THE PRIVILEGED ADDICT : AA Has Lost Its WayCharliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04183269305957041463noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2530451786669304321.post-69183010336100159812016-01-06T22:12:18.414-05:002016-01-06T22:12:18.414-05:00We are NOT our thoughts. We are something far gre...We are NOT our thoughts. We are something far greater than that. Thoughts are random, usually judgemental, self depricating, often filled with doom and gloom, regret, anxiety, some glorious and joyful but all are ever changing and ALL are SELF centered. There is no eternalness in thoughts... thoughts are not action or reality. Thoughts create stories about ourselves, others and they are a dime a dozen. YOU think noone suffers like you, your suffering is somehow different, harder, worse. Why bc it involves a YOU.<br /> I no longer suffer. Liberation has been recognized. If this resonates with anyone, look up Tony Parsons, Nonduality. It just may resonate and end once and for all end "your suffering". My questions have ended. My suffering has ended. I live in "isness" the ever present and energetic NOW. I wish all of you the very best.Justasitishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06054239969129645445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2530451786669304321.post-57169421513215073552016-01-06T22:02:01.214-05:002016-01-06T22:02:01.214-05:00It's about living in "isness". In &...It's about living in "isness". In "isness", the ever Present, awareness of what is. We are NOT our thoughts, they are impermanent and usually judgemental and self oriented. We are all something far deeper. In fact it is so obvious, almost all characters miss it. You are Awareness. You are that which is eternal, energy fully alive in what is. Stop the stories, and sit in Isness. If any of this resonates, check out Tony Parsons (a nondualist). "My" suffering has ended. My seeking has ended. Never to return again... I wish all of you the best. Justasitishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06054239969129645445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2530451786669304321.post-45143357228545121112015-12-08T16:27:18.052-05:002015-12-08T16:27:18.052-05:00Lol.Lol.Charliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04183269305957041463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2530451786669304321.post-71833768261331249012015-12-08T15:22:07.604-05:002015-12-08T15:22:07.604-05:00No he needs to go to NA. CANNAVIS like it or not ...No he needs to go to NA. CANNAVIS like it or not has medical uses. And AA is for alcoholism not for marijuana.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07847964702651607231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2530451786669304321.post-43932465392247119502015-09-24T14:45:52.838-04:002015-09-24T14:45:52.838-04:00Hi Charlie,
Thank you for writing this great blog....Hi Charlie,<br />Thank you for writing this great blog. I think you will stay sober for the rest of your life unlike 99% of others because you stopped blaming others for the problem you created. Actually that is the secret to sobriety-stop blaming everyone else and take 100% of blame for yourself. Sadly, it is rare to find such a person which is why they don't succeed.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2530451786669304321.post-20510940756679822522015-09-22T04:59:09.119-04:002015-09-22T04:59:09.119-04:00I was married to a violent alcoholic for nearly 16...I was married to a violent alcoholic for nearly 16 years, and experienced unimaginable grief and devastation that nearly killed me. I know all about AA because of him and that it is a broken organization. Instead of helping alcoholics it creates new problems. Someone mentioned that some people are court mandated to attend which is a giant red flag that he has committed a serious offense, but lucky for him since he can stay anonymous. I watched a documentary on youtube called Sober Truth, which shows how broken this organization is and how they put, especially young women lives in danger. It shows how a young woman who met a man in his thirties at an AA meeting (court mandated) who had a long history of alcoholism and violence ended up murdering her. She was oblivious to his criminal past thanks to AA until it was too late and is now dead.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2530451786669304321.post-64238095231679124042015-01-06T15:31:16.245-05:002015-01-06T15:31:16.245-05:00Please don't forget that many people HAVE TO ...Please don't forget that many people HAVE TO ATTEND meetings by drug court, to regain licenses etc. There are still some good meetings out there. They can always find men's and women's-only groups to avoid some of the issues you mention. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2530451786669304321.post-86680019431457427982014-12-16T19:47:06.722-05:002014-12-16T19:47:06.722-05:00Whenever and wherever we are cleaning up we are go...Whenever and wherever we are cleaning up we are going to wind up with some dirty bathwater. The point is to be able to discern which is the dirty bathwater and which is the resulting clean baby, and proceed accordingly. Utopia is a different dimension than this one.Jeremiah Wronghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14935967182992628185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2530451786669304321.post-46278528193032755992014-07-09T09:40:24.028-04:002014-07-09T09:40:24.028-04:00Outstanding! Keep up the good work and continue to...Outstanding! Keep up the good work and continue to carry the message as the pioneers did, not this watered down "take your time, it's not race" or " meeting makers make it" lethal garbage we hear in rooms today. Awesome article, God bless!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02860443889157640076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2530451786669304321.post-20927906397834726492014-02-23T03:35:07.059-05:002014-02-23T03:35:07.059-05:00Great article. And thank you for directly calling ...Great article. And thank you for directly calling this out with terse language. Modern people think that the program is "go to meetings, get a sponsor, stay sober." Rather the program is "Trust God, Clean House, Help Others." The modern program and most of its participants a very, very sick. The Big Book brought be recovery. Meetings and people in them made me sicker. Today, God is doing for me what I (and no sponsor or group) could do for me. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2530451786669304321.post-79035575467588879322014-02-13T03:21:00.980-05:002014-02-13T03:21:00.980-05:00I am a member of AA. Please consider that your co...I am a member of AA. Please consider that your comments can be very destructive to an alcoholic addict seeking recovery. The person seeking recovery must be able to find a loving, un-judgemental atmosphere (wherever he seeks it does not matter). Let's all pray that our hearts may be in the right place to receive anyone who is seeking help!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2530451786669304321.post-56660562455353583482013-10-22T18:35:15.911-04:002013-10-22T18:35:15.911-04:00Charlie, AA has not lost it's way. Many of the...Charlie, AA has not lost it's way. Many of the fools in AA have lost their way. They founders of AA wrote a book entitled Alcoholics Anonymous that has the undiluted, concise direction for how to stay sober and lead a happy fruitful life. Please direct your readers to read the book, it requires no further authentication. They can then decide for themselves what their next "steps" may or may not be. Keep up the good work!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2530451786669304321.post-41409643439814639922013-10-22T18:31:48.088-04:002013-10-22T18:31:48.088-04:00If he is going to AA and he is a NON ALCOHOLIC he ...If he is going to AA and he is a NON ALCOHOLIC he will die there. There are 400 12 step programs out there. Marijuana Anonymous or Drug Addicts Anonymous would be a better fit for him IF he is NON ALCOHOLIC. To explain why would take 5 pages...Good Luck!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2530451786669304321.post-5606460375581371782013-01-29T21:19:16.663-05:002013-01-29T21:19:16.663-05:00Did you attend meetings when you were in early rec...Did you attend meetings when you were in early recovery? Did meetings help you. My son who is highly addicted to marijuana has been attending meetings for the last 6 months but keeps relapsing. Does it make sense for him to keep going?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com