tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2530451786669304321.post1318201293650221409..comments2023-09-22T08:12:25.535-04:00Comments on THE PRIVILEGED ADDICT : Addicts Don't Understand Being HumanCharliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04183269305957041463noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2530451786669304321.post-42591676082638113922016-06-09T23:13:59.947-04:002016-06-09T23:13:59.947-04:00Charlie,
I found your blogspot after I googled we...Charlie, <br />I found your blogspot after I googled wether or not I was truly selfish for wanting my husband's recovery. He convinced me that I wanted his recovery for myself. We've been together since we were 16 ( we're 37). This year has been hell on earth. He is currently having an affair with a woman he admitted enables and listens to his problems quietly, unlike me who he says has an opinion about everything. Do you have any postings on addicts and infidelity? She says she loves him and he loves her. He says he doesn't but I don't know if I should believe him. Last week he told me he wants us, his family. Yesterday he left to pick up his last check, and never came back. I was told by my therapist it was time for tough love so I packed his bags and texted him to come get his things. My question is: is my addict husband truly capable of loving this woman and she him or are his feelings a delusion? I'd also like to say that I admire the selflessness you have displayed in letting us all have a glimpse of the world you lived as an addict. I pray that someday my husband (or ex at this point. I haven't seen him in a day and I know he went back to her) can recover and stay recovered as you have. Thank you. Annanoreply@blogger.com