Let Go and Let God
Needless to say, this is the essence and the desired result of taking Steps. When I take a 3rd Step, I have become willing to let go of a life driven by self-will. I have decided to no longer be guided by my warped and broken mind. I have essentially given my will over to God, and by promising to take more action, the two hopefully become aligned. The goal is to get my self-will to naturally do God's will. In other words, I seek to naturally do the right thing, to naturally be honest, helpful, willing, tolerant and loving. In this sense, it's fine to use as much self-will as I want in order to do God's will.
When we addicts begin to worry about ourselves - our feelings, our lives, our financial security, even our hopes and dreams - this is when we have stopped letting go. We have reverted back to self-will and attempting to control our lives. Alcoholics and addicts think they know what's best for them. We think we know what we should be doing in life. We think we are better directors of our life show, better drivers of our destiny.
We are terrible at controlling our lives and making decisions. In fact, addict or not, a life driven by self-will can be a total failure. Sure we may accomplish anything and everything in the world, but we may be void of the only thing that matters: peace. What's the point of anything if we feel empty, angry, anxious, depressed, unsettled, distracted or our hearts are clenched? Who cares what we have, what we own, who we are with, or what we have accomplished?
A teacher of mine once said, Charlie the only thing that really matters is how you feel inside. And no, he didn't mean that in the selfish way.
God, please help me let go of self-will, that I may align with Your will...